WHAT TO DO IN THE FIRST
12 MONTHS OF SEPARATION?
WHAT TO DO IN THE FIRST
12 MONTHS OF SEPARATION?
A free guide for separated parents who want to get this right from the start and avoid years of conflict, tension, and regret.
A free guide for separated parents who want to get this right from the start and avoid years of conflict, tension, and regret.
Whether separation feels difficult or manageable, this is for you if you want to stay out of unnecessary conflict and make wise early decisions.
The first 12 months after separation will either save your co-parenting relationship... or damage it for years and set the tone of your children's entire experience of having two homes.
In this free training, I will show you:
What to do
What not to do
How to protect your children
How to avoid conflict from creeping in or escalating
How to create the best future for you and your children
If you want to protect your children and your future,
WHO THIS IS FOR
WHO THIS IS FOR
This is for you if:
You have recently separated and feel unsure where to start
Things are calm, but you do not feel clear
You know separation is manageable, but you do not know what you do not know
Communication feels awkward or reactive
Drop offs feel tense
Money conversations feel fragile
You worry about your child being caught in the middle
You want to avoid future conflict, not just fix current issues
You want clear agreements, not grey areas
You want stability fast
WHY THE FIRST 12 MONTHS MATTER
WHY THE FIRST 12 MONTHS MATTER
The first year sets the tone for the next ten years.
When you get this year right:
Routines settle
Kids feel safer
Conflict reduces
Communication becomes clearer
Everyone settles into their new lives over time
You may or may not be friends, but you can co-parent
You won't need lawyers or court
When you get this year right:
Routines settle
Kids feel safer
Conflict reduces
Communication becomes clearer
Everyone settles into their new lives over time
You may or may not be friends, but you can co-parent
You won't need lawyers or court
When you get this year wrong:
Conflict becomes normal and it's consuming your life
Lawyers get involved
Money drains fast
Kids carry stress that is not theirs and need to see a psychologist
You are stressed all the time
You stay stuck in ongoing arguments for years
When you get this year wrong:
Conflict becomes normal and it's consuming your life
Lawyers get involved
Money drains fast
Kids carry stress that is not theirs and need to see a psychologist
You are stressed all the time
You stay stuck in ongoing arguments for years
WHO CREATED THIS
WHO CREATED THIS
This training was created by Lisanne Iriks, an award-winning family mediator, who has helped thousands of separated parents through their separation over the last 16 years;
This is not theory.
It comes from working with real families and seeing what works and does not work.
You are not the first parent going through separation.
You do not have to figure it out alone.
WHAT OTHER PARENTS SAID
WHAT OTHER PARENTS SAID
"Lisanne ensured conversation and negotations between myself and my ex partner were kept calm and reasonable, ensuring we understood each others perspective on issues and could successfully agree on a parenting plan for the next 12-24 months. I am so thankful for Lisanne's professional yet also friendly/sympathetic help. ”
"Lisanne ensured conversation and negotations between myself and my ex partner were kept calm and reasonable, ensuring we understood each others perspective on issues and could successfully agree on a parenting plan for the next 12-24 months. I am so thankful for Lisanne's professional yet also friendly/sympathetic help. ”
"Lisanne as direct, to the point and provided a safe and comfortable space to reach an amicable parenting plan that met the needs of both parties. I wouldn't hesitate to use her services again”